One Month

Well, our little man is one month old!!  It is so much harder this time around...knowing that Tobias is our last one. We have already had to put up his newborn clothes...:( I know that he has to grow up, but it is definitely bittersweet. 

He has been gaining weight like a champ...way more than the other kids did!!!  They averaged 3 to 5 oz at their check-ups.  Tobias?  10 oz!!!!  He has been doing really well at night.  The last couple of days have been hard though.  He just cries when he is awake. Not during a certain time of day like with colic...ALL.THE.TIME. So we are trying to figure it out...trying some different things.  He gets so tired that I think it is hard for him to go to sleep.  It has been hard, so prayers are greatly appreciated.  It makes it hard for me because I feel like the other kiddos aren't getting much of my time.  I know we are transitioning and still figuring Tobias out and in time he will get used to sleeping during the day. 

He does like a nice warm bath...that is the only thing that really calms him down.  But his little body can't handle being in a bath tub all day...and besides our bathrooms are a little too small for all of us to camp out in! :) 

Well, that is all for now.  We love you, Tobias, and are so thankful that we are your parents.

1 month

He was done with pictures

All better now

Happy Birthday, Richard "Tobias"

Well, today you made your entrance into the world!  We are so thankful that you made it here safely..praising God for your safe arrival.

We got up this morning and spent some time with Josiah, Soph and Ky before we headed to the hospital.  When we got there, we found out they were behind schedule.  I was kind of expecting that since there were three other couples at pre-op on Friday.  When we were told they we were behind, we found out there were 6 c-sections scheduled for that day plus all the other normal deliveries...busy day for the doctors and nurses!!

We were finally brought back to the OR just before 11am and by 11:12am we heard your strong cries...still one of the sweetest sounds!  The doctors and nurses were absolutely wonderful.  Dr. Speyer was great just like with Kyrie.  Mommy had a little harder time with feeling nauseous and actually got sick.  Wasn't much fun, but knew it was worth it to have you here.  We spent a little over an hour in recovery before getting settled into our room.  It took the longest time to see you after taking you to the nursery to have you checked out.   It was so sweet to finally be able to hold you.

Mommy did have some issues with my oxygen levels being low and had to be on oxygen for a few hours.  They think when I got sick some junk got into my lungs.  So thankful that after much prayer and some breathing exercises along with the oxygen that things got better.

We are so glad that you are here and can't wait to see who God has created you to be.  We love you, Richard Tobias, and are so thankful God chose us to be your parents.  

Here are some pictures from our big day!

Mommy and Daddy getting ready to go to the OR

Richard "Tobias"--11:12am--8lbs 1oz--21 in

One proud daddy

Mommy seeing Tobias for the first time

We are FINALLY reunited back in our room

Darian meeting Tobias for the first time

It was a very tiring day

Bup-Bup and Mimi meeting Tobias for the first time

Hootie Hoos 1,2,3 meeting their baby brother

Richard Tobias

Well, it is official...we are having a boy!!   We will be naming him Richard Tobias and will be calling him Tobias.  Richard means "strong" and Tobias means "God is good." 

Many of you may not know, but on August 8, 1992, my brother, Richard, was killed in a private plane crash.  It was definitely a very difficult event in the life of my family.  I was only 13 at the time of his death.  I hadn't really had to deal with death before.  Sure, I had lost a great-grandparent or two, but they were old, so it just seemed right that their time was up.  My brother was so young...his death was so unexpected.  It totally rocked my world.  I had grown up going to church here and there, but didn't really have a saving faith.  I heard about God and believed that there was a God.  I knew Jesus was His Son, but had never surrendered my life to Him.  I can remember feeling so out of control...not only had my brother just died, but I was starting high school in a new town after living three years overseas in England.  There was many days that I plotted how to end my life.  The day had finally come when I was going to take my life down on the shore of Lake Champlain in Plattsburgh, NY.  I was getting ready to take my life when I heard a voice say, "You will either follow Me or you will turn your back on Me."  I had no idea what this meant, but it was enough to shake me to the core and stop me from taking my life.  It wouldn't be until almost four years later that that comment made sense...when I surrendered my life to Jesus...it was God speaking to me. 

The meaning of Richard..."strong" has great significance to me.  When I was weak, God was strong for me.  There have been many other times in my life when God has been strong for me, but that day on the shore of Lake Champlain definitely stands out.  The meaning of Tobias..."God is good" is also an appropriate name for our son.  Almost twenty years later, I can stand back and see how God has used my brother's death in so many ways to minister to people.  God took a tragedy and has used it to bring Him glory...and to me that is goodness.  Even though there are times I don't understand why this had to happen to our family, I know God is in control and He sees the BIG picture. 

I know that the day that Richard Tobias is born will be a joyful day, but like with all of our children a part of me will wish that their uncle could be there to meet them.  But God will be my strength, and I will sit there in the labor and delivery room and know that I can honestly say that "God is good."

Unexpected Blessing #2

Well, I’m sitting on the couch listening to the monitors as your brother and sisters drift off to sleep.  Still in shock of the news your Daddy and I received today.  I hadn’t been feeling well the last couple of day…feeling a little nauseas, but then at the same time feeling extremely hungry.  I just shrugged it off as having a stomach bug and not really eating much.  Last night, I couldn’t sleep very much…I kept waking up and thinking, “What if we are pregnant?”  Again, I shrugged it off because there was NO WAY that we could be…we were being very careful.  I had been thinking most of the morning, “Could I be?  No, I can’t be.”  After doing that for a couple of hours, I decided that I was going to go ahead and take a test to just confirm that I wasn’t pregnant, so I wouldn’t keep worrying until I started my cycle.  Well, you should have seen my face when the pregnancy test came back positive!!  Your Daddy and I were waiting until Kyrie turned one…in just a week…to talk about Baby #4…whether you were going to be natural or adopted.  I guess God has given us the answer…He wants Baby #4 to be from Mommy and Daddy.  So even though we are totally surprised, we are so very excited to have you coming.  As we have learned over the years, God’s timing and plan is PERFECT.  So we can’t wait to meet you, we pray that you will stay put and continue to grow strong and healthy.  We love you, Little One…our other unexpected blessing!